The Image of a Child...
There is an image of a child that I cannot get out of my head.
While making “medical rounds” in the mountains, we were directed to a mother who had a baby with a bad cough. The family of six lived in an 8 x 10 shelter with corrugated metal forming the walls and a tarp serving as the roof. While the coughing baby was being checked out, I noticed another baby sitting diaperless in the dirt in front of their home.
I have a grandson, Joseph, who will celebrate his first birthday in a few weeks. I used a mental image of Joseph as a gauge to help me approximate the age of this baby. Based on size, I guessed the baby to be about 7 or 8 months old. I approached him, squatted down and attempted to engage him – rubbed his cheek, made some funny faces, picked up his hands and gave them a little shake. Nothing. No response at all. Just a blank stare with glazed over eyes.
Ro and his stethoscope, along with the mother and an interpreter, joined me. I indicated that the baby was very lethargic and should be checked out. A few quick words exchanged between the mother and the interpreter brought to light that the baby was in fact 4 years old! He has never walked or talked. When asked if the child had eaten that day (it was late afternoon), the response was “No.” When was the last time he had eaten? “Yesterday…I think.”
The child’s heartbeat was faint. I was told that it was likely that he would not be alive by the time we visit again.